Why Filipinos Point Using Their Lips — A Fun Look Into a Charming Cultural
- MASX
- 10 hours ago
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If you’re visiting the Philippines and suddenly see someone puckering their lips in a certain direction…Don’t worry — they’re not blowing a kiss at you.
They’re pointing.And yes — it’s completely normal.
Lip-pointing is one of those wonderfully Filipino habits that surprise visitors but make perfect sense once you understand it.
What Is Lip-Pointing?
Instead of using a finger to point, many Filipinos will:
purse their lips
push them slightly forward
subtly gesture toward something or someone
It’s quick, efficient, and very common in everyday interactions.
You might hear:
“Over there.” (lip point)
“That one.” (lip point)
“Look behind you.” (lip point)
It’s a small gesture, but once you notice it, you’ll see it everywhere — in markets, homes, shops, even among friends hanging out.
Why Do Filipinos Point With Their Lips?
1. It’s More Polite
In Filipino culture, pointing with a finger — especially at a person — can feel rude, aggressive, or confrontational. Lip-pointing softens the gesture and avoids any disrespect.
2. It’s Subtle and Friendly
Lip-pointing is low-key. It feels casual, relaxed, and friendly… which fits Filipino social culture perfectly.
3. It’s Part of the “Soft Communication Style”
Filipinos often use gentle, indirect communication. Lip-pointing matches the cultural tendency to:
avoid conflict
stay polite
keep interactions smooth and easy
4. It’s Just Practical
If your hands are full?Busy cooking? Carrying bags?Lip-pointing is convenient!
How to Recognize It
Filipinos usually do a small upward or sideways pucker — subtle, not exaggerated.
Example:
You ask, “Where’s the bathroom? ”
They might reply: “Over there.” (purses lips toward the hallway)
You’ll quickly learn to follow the gaze + lip direction combo.
Should Travelers Try It?
You can, but you don’t have to.Filipinos won’t expect tourists to pick up lip-pointing. But if you do try it, people often find it endearing — just keep it subtle.
What NOT to Do
Don’t use strong finger pointing toward a person — it can feel rude.
Don’t exaggerate the lip gesture into an over-the-top pout.
Don’t interpret lip-pointing as flirtation — it’s not! Filipinos use it with children, family, friends, everyone.
Other Filipino Gestures Travelers Might Notice
The “mano po” hand gesture for respect
The “psst!” sound to get attention
The iconic “yes/no eyebrow raise” Filipino body language is expressive, playful, and full of warmth.